Yes I know, you are surprised, it left you with your mouth open and others I’m sure they are baffle with this confession. I’m sure that some of you may think that this is a joke, that today is the day of the innocent or that I have finally confess of doing cross dressing.
Sorry to disappoint those who one way or a another thought that one of those could be a possibility, because is simply a single experiment that I just conducted, to see if I could prove a hypothesis/theory that has been in my mind for a while about why women love to be in high heels.
The idea started after a conversation that I had where we were talking about how challenging it is for the modern women to balance life between her personal, spiritual, physical, work and emotions. Also, that they have a great necessity of finding a place and a space where they can re-group and find tools and new techniques so they can accomplish that.
So I started to think how I could transmit in a simple way –in rice and beans was we say in PR- here in this space the knowledge on this topic and bring some ideas of the workshop that I did a few years ago called What Women Want…5 easy steps to transform your life, that in simple words it show how to balance your life by taking new decisions and doing some easy steps.
Immediately the first thing that came to my mind was how can I prove that a women use high heels daily and how they can do all the ting that they do every single day in a platform that is 6 inch high and less than half of inch width.
In that platform women could feel confident in themselves, secure, it gives them a sort of power, an advantage, they feel sensual and sexy, they have a better perspective of life and it also has given them the opportunity in the workforce place to see a man at the same eye level.
Also it has given them the opportunity to observe and analyzed more clearly the decisions that they have to make in a daily basis about their families, kids, home, work, gym and partners.
That responsibility of making those decisions has a direct effect that accumulates and it reflects in huge frustration, deceptions, unnecessary stress, broken health that could lead to cancer, continue criticism, unexpected envy, lack of time for them, broken homes, divorce and in some cases literally been alone.
The great thing about those high heels is that no matter the circumstances, life’s ups and downs, in the daily thongs that they need to take care of their children, that they have to dived themselves into 30 pieces to take care of all the things that they have to do, manage a complicated agenda that a man –in the majority of the cases- would never ever could handle for a week, and the beauty of it is that they are capable of doing it –in the majority of the cases- all of it very well.
Today I want it to recognize all of those women decent from Eve that every day are the warriors of the 21th century, they are the ones that makes the world continue moving forward, they are the ones that feel that they need to continue doing more and more and maximize every single minute of every day, they are the ones that in silence they suffer so the ones that are around her will come out and succeed.
Is not that the high heels give them special or extraordinary powers, but they have proven that the world at your feet.